the truth

I love being able to be truthful to my lover but, when we say things at the wrong moment it just blows back up in our faces. It hurt letting me know that he thought that too much of one thing can get annoying. The atmosphere can get annoying. He indirectly implied that he told me were getting annoying. That i'm smothering him. Excuse me for loving you too much. I saw you once this week and suddenly i'm smothering you. The thing I hate that I do is fall in love when I shouldn't. I love being in love but, only with a person who is willing to love me as much as I do him. It hurt that he told me he needed breathing room. What am I doing wrong?